I Love You

• My whole life changed man, when she hold my hand and told me "I Love You “...
• I told her "I Love You" and she walked out of my life forever...
• I f***ing don’t know, how the f*** i will tell her "I Love You”....
• I love her man! But how can i say "I Love You”, i think it will put me down ...
• I damn care someone tells me "I Love you", because its just words. You can’t express them in just words ...

These are just few of those lines that hit my ear often enough and put me in a state of so called "Conscious thinking".

Does these words are so magical/powerful enough? That changes ones life from nowhere to every thing and from everything to nothing. If that is so why not every one just says them like we say "Good morning" or any other greeting lines that we say to even the most hated person for us in this world.

Why is it so difficult to tell someone "I love you" even when we are really in love with them? What makes us think so much to spell out these words, but we can give lectures for hours on some other stuff. Is these words really so tough to deal with ?

Or these words when said does not mean thing? Can’t we really capture those feeling of love in mere above words? ….

We can’t deny any of those views expressed above. All of statements makes us feel that they make sense in one situation or the other.

When observed keenly there is anxiety, sorrow, unhappiness, joy, hatred and much more feelings surrounding these 3 words. And when you perform a root cause analysis the result is “FEAR”.

So is FEAR is the only factor which gives so much significance to “I Love You”?

If understood and there is no FEAR then can these 3 words make more sense ?